Speak the customer’s language

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Published: Thu 15 Jul 2021, 9:00 AM

When I first landed in Dubai my initial days here were lonely. The main reason was that I had a problem of communicating with the local customers. Dubai’s local language is Arabic and international language is English. I was poor in English and Arabic was totally unfamiliar to me. I could only speak Hindi or Marathi. But very few customers would reciprocate in Indian languages. This dilemma not only made me nervous but also isolated me. I began hiding from the Arabic and English speaking customers.

By Dr Dhananjay (Jay) Datar

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Some white collared customers would prefer to speak in fluent and elite English only and that made the situation even more awkward for me. Even after figuring out that I struggled with English and would reply with only three words — yes, no or thank you, they maliciously kept talking in eloquent English and enjoyed watching my embarrassment. This caused an inferiority complex within me.


One day I was working in the shop as usual when an Arab gentleman dropped in. I warily faced him and greeted him in Arabic saying ‘Sabah al-Khair’ (good morning), the only Arabic words I was familiar with. Hearing this he thought that I could speak his language and he continued the conversation in Arabic. Soon he noticed my silence and realised the situation. He wisely found a way and started communicating in gestures. He first pointed towards the commodity he wanted and then made a chopping action on his wrist. The meaning immediately flashed in my mind and I understood that he wanted half kg of that product. When I handed over the packet to him he paid for it and waved his hand happily, saying ‘Sukran’ (thank you).

The body language of that Arab customer taught me a lot. I understood the importance of communicating in the customer’s language. At the same time I realised how easy and joyful it is to learn a foreign language from the natives. All of a sudden my fear vanished and I resolved to learn both Arabic and English by heart. The very next day I started learning different Arabic words and applying them. It is such a sweet language that in six months, I progressed to talking with my customers in Arabic easily.


Then I turned my attention to English. I joined a coaching class to polish my language and acquire conversational skills. The teacher was a pleasant, gentle person. He taught me various techniques of public speaking. This tutelage profited me in my business also. Being a multilingual definitely expands your reach to a large number of customers. I always offer this precious advice to all entrepreneurs who would like to expand their business globally.

A quote of Nelson Mandela, the late South African leader, is worth memorising — one that is a personal favourite.

“If you talk to a man in a language he understands, that goes to his head. If you talk to him in his own language, that goes to his heart.”


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