Dube has established himself as one of the most destructive middle-order batters in the IPL, scoring 350 runs at a 170-plus strike rate
Growing up, the concept of marriage that I was exposed to was generic to communities. However, having met new people, friends, colleagues, professional matchmakers and consultants, my perspective has evolved. I have begun to see a companion in my partner, a person with whom I want to share every aspect of my life and build a life together. Indian Matchmaking has made me radically push my boundaries to understand the partner I want and vice versa. The show has given me the courage to go and put myself out of the comfort zone. It has helped me clear my mind to undergo the intense process of matchmaking.
The show highlighted many stereotypes. I noticed people were becoming judgemental because of their definition of masculinity. What these people don't realise is that they are not helping matters, they are simply making biased opinions about an individual. On one hand, they talk about stereotypes and on the other, a person who likes dressing up, who has an eye for the finer things in life and is taking time to find his perfect match is questioned. Yes, there were many comparisons, which were wrong and baseless, but we have to understand that this is a reality show and it is edited in a way that captures the audience's interest. People will speak, and that shouldn't stop anyone from being who they are and what they like doing .
The docu reality series was highly edited. My real personality was diluted to suit the show and the storyline. Amidst these edits, my true self did not reflect correctly and people became presumptuous and judgemental. My personality wasn't accurately portrayed, which, in turn, created a completely different impression of my character further being perceived the way I was, which is very unlike me in my real life.
On the show, my session with the life coach Varkha Chulani was very brief. In reality, however, I had a chance to gain a lot of wisdom from her. A professional, she could understand the base intentions of the things I was looking for in a partner. She understood I am seeking someone who is driven, passionate and has her own vision of how to live her own life independently and together with me simultaneously. She asked me to answer the same question from a woman's perspective, which made me realise that women want a partner who makes them feel loved, secure, respected and help them grow as an individual whilst growing old together. Feeling on the right path, I felt more confident speaking to Varkha.
In my opinion, it is still relevant because as Indians we are still traditional in many ways and we have seen first-hand how arranged marriages have worked. So even if we may not want to have an arranged marriage, we don't completely diss the idea either. The process of two families coming together and developing it further into a family relationship is beautiful. I also feel that in an arranged setting, most of the time the families tend to know each other. There is a lot of comfort between the couple because their family values, expectations from life, understanding about ideological background tends to be in sync. Adapting into the family becomes slightly more comfortable for the couple.
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