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How two Indian sisters found their love in Pakistan
Zarina and Mustafa (left), Zeenat and Tanvir
Abu Dhabi - This tale is a fine example of the bond between Indians and Pakistanis living in the UAE, unless there's an India-Pakistan match on TV.
Meet Zarina and Zeenat, two sisters from Mumbai, who both married Pakistani nationals, and proved that love has no borders or boundaries.
"People ask us jokingly whether there were no Indians left that both of us had to find Pakistani grooms. We tell them we wanted India and Pakistan to learn something from us," Zeenat Tanvir, 40, from Sharjah, told Khaleej Times.A filmy love story
To make the love story even more filmy, two couples tied the knot in Sharjah on the same day on October 15, 1998.
"It is the best decision that we have ever taken. Our love and marriage have only grown stronger in the last 18 years," said Zarina Mustafa, 37.
The couple has five children: Zahra, 18, Murtaza, 15, Fahad, 13 and twins Asma and Husna, 10. Zeenat and Tanvir have three children: Ali, 14, Fizza, 11 and Haider, 8.
Tanvir, who runs a packaging business in Sharjah, said Zeenat was his teenage love, and when he was around 18 years, he did not imagine he would end up marrying her.Cross-border love is not a cakewalk
Echoing the same zest and passion of her teenage years, Zeenat said she was deeply in love with Tanvir since her Grade 11. "That has never changed. All our cultural differences, nationalities, language barriers nothing mattered to us, till date," said Zeenat.
Zarina-Mustafa love story is also similar. The couple met while Zeenat was dating Tanvir. "Mustafa was my brother-in-law's best friend. So, both of us used to hang out a lot. Love just happened," said Zarina.
But it was indeed not a cake walk to the marriage aisle.
"Naturally our parents were concerned. There was pressure from family and friends. It was a big thing for us to marry outside of our community. I am sure my father had difficulties to tell community leaders that both his daughters are marrying outside the community," said Zeenat.
Same was the case with Mustafa and Tanvir whose parents were not happy about their sons marrying Indian girls outside of their communities.Lessons in Indo-Pak peace
"I have been to Pakistan several times, and the love and warmth I received from the people, even at the airport, was an eye-opener."
Both sisters said they had gallivanted across Pakistan and could only see the mirror image of India everywhere. "We are the same people who got separated because of politics and religion," said Zarina.
Tanvir said his experiences were also similar when he travelled to India. "People are so warm and welcoming. I felt very much at home."
"Look at our children. They are both Indians and Pakistanis. We really hope this generation will see peace and improved relationships between the two countries so that they can travel freely across the border," said Tanvir.
But there are days when love and peace take a backseat at home, admits the couple. "When India and Pakistan are playing cricket, then there is real war. Me and my sister are ardent Indian fans and our husbands are die-hard supporters of Pakistan. There is no divided loyalty when it comes to cricket. Even our kids take sides," joked Zarina.
But as soon as the cricketing frenzy dies, the couples become best friends again, just like they were in school.
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