The city's public transport system has many strict rules and regulations in place to ensure that everyone can have a safe and enjoyable journey
When did we stop listening or rather talking over each other? Perhaps, like most other things, we can blame this on technology, too. Or is it the lack of time? Does it have to do with the fact that we have too much to share/do and too little time in hand? Irrespective of the reason, my observations and conversations have convinced me this is not the kind of chaos, where we can aspire to find method in the madness.
Look around. At coffee shops, we meet a friend or a work associate over a Mocha Latte only to check WhatsApp messages as we engage in a chat. At work, we sit down in a conference room, only to talk over each other (in a louder voice) to reach a conclusion or prove a point. At home, we sit down at the dining table, only to attend a phone call in between. On a friends' night out, we express interest to know what's happening in the life of the other, only to cut him short to tell us what's happening in ours. We willingly ask for an opinion/suggestion of the other and are too quick to disregard the same.
Perhaps, the listener knows better than me or has other important things to attend to. Perhaps, we have lost the art of 'agree to disagree' or we've come to believe that badgering is the way out of work situations. Perhaps, we're confusing listening to just another element of our lives that are now governed by the motto of multitasking. We're all guilty of replying to e-mails as we talk on the landline or replying to a chat as we feed our children or doing dishes as our partner shares how his/her day was.
It is worrisome, but we've accepted pure disrespect towards not just the opinions of each other, but also the mere words of the other as a new definition of 'conversation'. It's not two-sided anymore. Why else would someone invite us over for a cup of tea and then have no time to consume it with us? Why else would we put someone on a podium to speak and then stare into our screens or talk amongst ourselves? Why else would we nod when we missed hearing the other?
Interestingly, the dictionary has a word for this emotion that we are now feeling, but failing to express. It's called anecdoche, a conversation in which everyone is talking, but nobody is listening.
For me, anecdoche is the word that best describes the times we are in. As for what is slowly happening to us as we stop to listening I am afraid to find out.
purva@khaleejtimes.com
The city's public transport system has many strict rules and regulations in place to ensure that everyone can have a safe and enjoyable journey
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