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If this is the story of your life, it's no wonder that experts are constantly furnishing new studies about how 'family time' is increasingly taking a hit these days. In fact, a recent survey of 500 respondents across the region by fashion retailer Centrepoint found that while an overwhelming 96 per cent of those surveyed lived with their families, over a fifth have less than one meal a day with those loved ones.
Growing up, Fridays for Canadian expat Ahilya Sharma were unequivocally 'family days'. Born and raised in the UAE, it was only when she went away to Concordia University in Canada that she realised how much she'd taken the time she had with her family for granted. "We lived a very sheltered life here, so to suddenly not have the same feeling of safety and belonging came as a huge shock to me," she says.
Finding activities that involve the entire family tends to be tricky, considering the age gap. But it is not a concern that crops up when you're making art. Says Ahilya, "I'm not sure I'd want to bounce around on a trampoline or go ice skating very often. But art is ageless. No matter how old or young you are - and this applies even to babies - it's a beautiful way to bond when you paint together. There could be a stroke on that canvas that may remind you of the moment you accidentally splashed paint on your face and everyone had a good laugh. In this digital world, having something physical like that to remind you of the time spent together is priceless."
The family hopes to go back for more art sessions soon. "It's a safe, 'mutual zone', where the time spent with kids does not involve serious discussions or discipline," says Ahilya; moments that are just as important and go a long way towards improving bonds. "As adults, we think we know what children want to do for entertainment, but I've found that kids have some of the best ideas. Listen to them."
South African expat Saresa Anthonissen is under no illusions. "Family time is very much compromised these days," she believes. A hectic pace of life and technology play their roles, but in her household, it has more to do with conflicting schedules. Saresa's husband is a pilot with Emirates and, as creative director for Dubai Desert Group, she too travels a lot. As a result, a lot of their 'family time' depends on "whoever is available in Dubai" at a given moment. "We try to make the most of the time we do spend together," laughs the Dubai-based mum-of-two.
With their constant travels and the difficulty of getting the kids away from their screens ("there's always something more interesting going on in some other part of the world!"), Saresa has found that food tends to work as a great connector in their home. "At some point, the kids do get hungry and are forced to come down for food," she says. "We enjoy cooking together a lot, and spending time together over a meal."
At the Bhargava household, the family of four shares a pact: every other day, everyone takes it in turns to choose an activity and that's what the foursome engages in for the next 30 minutes. If the seven-year-old wants to play netball or 'donkey', that's just what everyone does for the next half hour. Making sure they do things as one unit is a big part of mum Ritu's day; and while the kids - her son is 14 and her daughter, 7 - won't go grocery shopping "willingly", she says there is no question about anyone not attending the other's school event or extracurricular activity together.
Apart from board games, the family also plays a lot of tennis together - and enjoy quiz games at home, thanks to Kahoot!, an app that allows users to create a learning game in minutes using a series of multiple choice questions. "All of us are very competitive," Ritu asserts. "Our motto is: to each his own. And that includes me: I never let my kids win or 'get away'!"
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