'More than walls': Dubai expats who lost Gaza homes in war face tough decision on rebuilding

For some, it is a piece of their heritage that they are determined to guard while for others, it is just a building that is pointless to restore

  • PUBLISHED: Thu 16 Jan 2025, 1:54 PM UPDATED: Sun 19 Jan 2025, 3:44 PM

[Editor's note: This article, originally published on January 16, is being reshared as a ceasefire in Gaza has begun, pausing a 15-month-long war. Read more details here]

Dubai residents hailing from Gaza are faced with difficult decisions about rebuilding their homes as the ceasefire remains tenuous. For some, their destroyed homes are a piece of their heritage that they are determined to guard while for others, it is just a building that is pointless to rebuild.

For 52-year-old Zeyad, rebuilding his home in Gaza is an act of resilience and hope. “I will rebuild my house in Gaza as soon as they allow it. It's more than just walls and a roof - it's my connection to my roots and my family's legacy," he explained.

Despite living in the UAE for over 25 years, Zeyad is determined to maintain his ties to his homeland. For him, it is not just about providing a physical space for his family but also about asserting the will to continue living despite adversity. “Every brick I lay is a statement that life goes on, and my family deserves to have a home to return to someday, no matter how uncertain things might seem," he said.

Follow KT on WhatsApp Channels.

Choosing to let go

Rehab, 49, who has lived in Dubai her entire life and works as a business owner, inherited her late father's home in Gaza, a house that once symbolised stability and familial love. For her, the idea of rebuilding feels futile.

"Rebuilding my late father's house feels pointless when the truce is only temporary. The cycles of destruction and rebuilding never seem to end, and I can't bear the thought of investing time and resources into something that might be destroyed again," she said.

Rehab vividly recalls her father's pride in the home he built, and the heartbreak of seeing it reduced to rubble. "I've decided to let it remain as it is - a reminder of what was, rather than a constant source of worry about what might happen next," she added. For her, moving forward means finding solace in memories rather than the uncertain promise of reconstruction.

Torn between hope and pragmatism

Essa, a factory owner in his 50s, finds himself in a state of indecision. His factory in Gaza was a vital source of income for his family and the community, but the destruction has left him questioning whether rebuilding is worth the risk.

"I'm torn about whether to rebuild my factory. On one hand, it feels like an act of defiance and hope to restore what's been lost. On the other hand, the instability makes me question if it's worth the financial and emotional investment," Essa said.

He's weighed the potential for further loss against the symbolic and practical value of restoring his livelihood. "I keep asking myself - what if this happens again? Right now, I'm stuck in this limbo, unsure if rebuilding is the right decision or if I should just accept the loss and move on," he admitted.

Essa's uncertainty highlights the psychological toll of living in a perpetual state of instability, where every decision feels like a gamble.

A shared struggle

For these residents, the question of rebuilding in Gaza is not just a logistical or financial one; it's deeply emotional, tied to identity, heritage, and hope for the future. While some, like Zeyad, find strength in rebuilding, others, like Rehab, see letting go as a form of self-preservation. For Essa, the journey is ongoing, reflecting the complexity of making decisions in a region where peace is fragile.

Their stories illuminate the broader struggles faced by thousands of families impacted by conflict in Gaza, underscoring the resilience of those who must navigate loss while daring to hope for a better future.

ALSO READ:

How long will it take to rebuild Gaza after Israel-Hamas war?

Israel-Hamas ceasefire: Palestinians in UAE see 'glimmer of hope amid a lot of heartbreak'

What are the key elements of the Gaza ceasefire deal?

UAE welcomes ceasefire, hostage release in Gaza Strip