I know he won't repeat it: Father of boy who ran away from home in UAE

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Sharjah - Another teen in UAE reunited with his family after missing for two days.



by

Dhanusha Gokulan

Published: Sun 24 Nov 2019, 5:29 PM

Last updated: Tue 26 Nov 2019, 7:37 AM

When Indian national Mohammad Aftab Alam's 15-year-old son went missing for a little over two weeks in June, his family's life turned upside down. The teenager, Mohammed Perwez, had slipped out of his home in Sharjah's Muweilah area after his mother rebuked him for watching YouTube videos late into the night.
He was reunited with his family after locals spotted him walking aimlessly in a residential area in Ajman.
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The incident sparked a meaningful conversation about adolescent mental health.
Speaking to Khaleej Times on Sunday - when another boy who had run away from home was reunited with his family after two days - Alam said the incident had changed the way he communicated with his son. "Even now, when I think about what happened those 15 days, my eyes tear up. I know he (Perwez) carries a lot of guilt on his shoulders. Also, I know he won't repeat it."
Perwez, too, has changed the way he deals with his family. "He does everything at home. He takes good care of his mother and sisters, and is going to school on time.
However, he doesn't go out much as he fears getting asked a lot of questions."
Alam said he is not angry with his son. "As children grow, sometimes parents raise their voice at them. I realised I needed to be more relaxed with him. Give them some freedom. Earlier, I was very strict; I'd blocked the Internet at home. Now, I allow him to use it as he wishes."
Meanwhile, Perwez, a boy of very few words, said: "My relation with my family has improved. When I think about what I'd done, I still feel very guilty. I won't do it again."
He has a piece of advice for parents. "I think parents should be encouraging. Don't put exam pressure on kids, and give them some freedom."
dhanusha@khaleejtimes.com


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