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The actor-producer opens up about stepping into the Aamir Khan-led film, the emotional power of inclusion, and balancing stardom with soccer matches
By the time Genelia DâSouza appears on screen in Sitaare Zameen Par, you already feel her presence. As Sunitaâa quietly persuasive, emotionally grounded character whose presence is largely felt in the second halfâshe becomes the kind of voice who doesnât need to shout to be heard. And in many ways, that mirrors who she is now.
âI think Sunita reflects the version of me Iâve grown into,â Genelia says in a Zoom conversation, thoughtful and composed. âSheâs someone Iâve seen evolve through all my own phasesâfrom early stardom, to marriage, motherhood, and now, producing. It felt like a natural extension of where I am in life.â
But this wasnât just a character choice. For Genelia, it was a statement of intent: a desire to embody roles that speak to her current selfâwoman, mother, creatorâwithout letting go of the childlike spark that made her Aditi from Jaane Tu Ya Jaane Na such an icon.
âYouâll know what I am taking about when you watch the film,â she says.
At its heart, Sitaare Zameen Par is a story about inclusion. But it never announces itself that way. The film, led by Aamir Khan and directed by R.S. Prasanna, follows ten neurodivergent adults and the reluctant coach who comes to understand themâand himself.
âItâs not trying hard to give a message,â Genelia says. âBut you leave the theatre with something lasting. Thatâs powerful storytelling.â
Itâs also personal. Geneliaâs parenting philosophy has long reflected this ethos.
âI always ask my kidsâdid you speak to the child sitting alone at lunch?â she says. âThatâs a conversation I have every other day. You canât call yourself a good person if youâre not inclusive. Thatâs just how I see it.â
Which is why being part of a film that normalises neurodivergence on screen felt like the perfect fit.
Nine out of the ten neurodivergent actors in the film are debutantsâa fact that surprises most, including Genelia.
âIf you ask me, Iâd say this wasnât their first film. Thatâs how good they were,â she says. âWe all went through the same processâauditions, workshops, rehearsals. But what they brought was something you canât teach: authenticity.â
Thereâs no overthinking, she explains. No posturing. Just raw, candid emotions that elevate every frame.
âYou sit with them and it just feels warm. The whole film feels warm. Itâs the kind of story youâd want to take your parents to, without a second thought.â
When asked about working with Aamir Khan, Genelia lights upânot as a fan, but as a fellow actor who found a true collaborator.
âHe never left us,â she says. âEven when he wasnât on camera, he was right there. Helping, guiding, being part of the team.â
She recalls his famous no-phone rule on set. âWe all started interacting moreâsharing stories, thoughts. It made the experience so much richer.â
This role marks a turning pointânot just in Geneliaâs career, but in the kind of stories she wants to tell.
âAs a producer, I now have the power to greenlight projects. Some I wonât act in, but they still need to feel like me. I want to see characters who are my age, who reflect the complexities of a mother, or a wife. Iâd love to do an adult love story too.â
She hopes the industry starts writing more roles âfor women like usâânot as side characters, but as fully realised protagonists.
So what does success mean to someone who has navigated multiple careers, industries, and identities?
âItâs temporary,â Genelia says, without hesitation. âWhat matters is showing upâfor your kids, your set, your people.â
She has, on more than one occasion, said no to appointments because of her childrenâs school events.
âThere are times Iâve not given a date because of a football match. And yes, people are shocked. But that match means everything to my childâand to me.â
Itâs this quiet conviction that defines her today: take each role seriously, carry each responsibility with grace, and remember that highs and lows are part of the game. âSports taught me that,â she adds. âYou donât quit. You find a way.â
Between her and husband Riteish Deshmukh, who is more likely to cry during a film like Sitaare Zameen Par?
âMe!â she says, laughing. âBut off late? Riteish. Heâs the kindest guy I know. Never looks for a fight. Just moves on with love.â
Itâs fitting that the conversation circles back to warmth, family, and connectionâbecause thatâs what Sitaare Zameen Par ultimately celebrates.
And in Geneliaâs case, itâs not just a film role. Itâs a reflection of the personâand parentâsheâs become, without letting go of the childlike spark which was evident in her character Aditi.