Pandemic shaming can backfire

During a pandemic that has already claimed more than 1.6 million lives worldwide, the safest strategy, unquestionably, is to abstain from festivities with those outside of our immediate households.

By Maia Szalavitz

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Published: Sat 19 Dec 2020, 7:56 PM

With the holiday season continuing and the spread of Covid-19 widely expected to worsen, many of us face the same gut-wrenching decision: to gather or not to gather? Do we take comfort in familiar rituals with family and friends — or should we limit celebrations to the relative isolation of our Covid-19 bubbles?

During a pandemic that has already claimed more than 1.6 million lives worldwide, the safest strategy, unquestionably, is to abstain from festivities with those outside of our immediate households. But not everyone values safety more than social connection — and public shaming and blanket demands for abstinence can backfire. How, then, can we balance our security and sanity, to ensure that we save as many lives as possible?


A concept developed by and for people who inject drugs can help.

Known as “harm reduction,” the idea emerged during the Aids crisis of the early 1980s and has since become an international movement in public health, taught everywhere from medical schools to syringe exchange programmes. While the term is now ubiquitous in the media, its grassroots origins in drug using communities are rarely acknowledged, which obscures much of what it can teach.


One guiding concept is that shame and force are ineffective ways to try to change behaviour, especially when people feel that the relevant activity is critical to their emotional survival. At best, tough tactics drive the behaviour underground. With harm reduction, in contrast, solutions are not imposed from above but instead arise from a respectful collaboration between affected people and health workers.

The basic idea behind harm reduction is that the goal of policy or individual actions should be to do the least possible damage, recognising that people will not always adhere to the preferences of health authorities — or even to their own preferences, for that matter. But minimising the harm associated with health decisions can save and improve lives.

In the case of Covid-19, we already know that many of us will continue to socialise, despite the pandemic. It’s fundamental to human biology: Our brains are wired to require social contact to relieve stress and, often, to experience pleasure. Research published in $$$$Nature Neuroscience$$$$ shows that we literally crave social contact. In fact, these cravings are driven by the  same circuitry as addiction, the difference being that the latter is essentially a harmful biological and psychological attachment to a drug rather than a person. And so, shame and stigma are unlikely to help, just as they don’t work to fight yearnings for drugs.

Instead, to help people protect themselves, harm reduction experts say it’s important to understand their goals and dreams, and not simply impose our own priorities and values.

A related and important idea is that risk communication must be respectful; it should give people the benefit of the doubt that they can digest information, weigh risks, and make choices for themselves.

During the Covid-19 pandemic, however, risk communication has been spotty, and at times patronising. Look no further than the initial decisions by the National Institutes of Health and other health officials to downplay the effectiveness of masks in order to reserve them for health care workers. On March 6, for example, Anthony Fauci, director of the NIH’s National Institute of Allergy and Infectious Diseases in the United States, told “60 Minutes” that there is “no reason for people to walk around with a mask.” Although these initial pronouncements were also affected by lack of data, the public was not given clear information about the reasoning behind them and the reasons why these recommendations were later reversed. In harm reduction, clear communication is essential to maintaining trust.

But perhaps the most important harm reduction idea for the holidays comes from the late Alan Marlatt, who was a leading addiction researcher at the University of Washington. He identified a phenomenon he called the “abstinence violation effect,” which applies when people take an all-or-nothing approach to risk behaviour. It is especially dangerous when we’re all suffering pandemic fatigue.

Here’s the basic idea: When you set complete abstinence as your only measure of success, any slip can feel like the end of all progress. This makes small lapses — which are extremely common when people attempt to change a behaviour — far more dangerous. You think, “I’ve already blown it, what’s the point?”

Harm reductionists take a different approach. They prioritise safety in the most dangerous situations, without expecting perfection at every second. If you lapse, you examine what led up to it and use that information to do better next time. You seek positive change, rather than punishing yourself.

How would this apply to Covid-19? It might mean being less concerned about transmission via surfaces, but being diligent about wearing masks. It might mean allowing yourself the occasional outdoor picnic with friends, but foregoing indoor dining at your favourite restaurant. You identify where risk is the highest and focus your efforts there, conserving willpower for when it is needed the most.

Harm reduction detractors commonly argue that providing information to minimise harm merely serves to condone and promote risky behaviour. But research shows otherwise.

So as we prepare to celebrate Chanukah, Christmas, Kwanzaa, and other holidays over the coming months, we should recognise that imperfection is not failure, and that one slip doesn’t mean all is lost. We’re all desperate for outside social contact at this point; blaming and shaming people for seeking it will only prompt resistance, denial, or subterfuge. Each of us needs to weigh the risks against our own values, keeping in mind that during a pandemic, individual choices affect the collective.

Using harm reduction, both on an individual and a population level, would likely save more lives than unrealistic demands for complete abstinence.

Maia Szalavitz is the author of “Unbroken Brain: A Revolutionary New Way of Understanding Addiction.”

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