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Covid-19 in UAE: Parents, students struggle to cope as hybrid schooling likely to continue

suneeti@khaleejtimes.com Filed on March 20, 2021
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How will working parents cope with a hybrid model of schooling?

The dawn of 2021 presented hope that we might get over the Covid-19 nightmare soon. It’s March now and there is no sign of the pandemic abating soon. The dominant thought on the minds of most parents, especially of primary school-going children, is the uncertainty around schooling. What will happen in coming months? How will working parents cope with a hybrid model of schooling?

“I felt like I am failing. Juggling household chores with work commitments and two primary aged kids has been a tough act to balance,” says Aida, mother of two children aged five and four, and a working professional. “My stress and anxiety levels had shot through the roof last year when schools switched to home learning. My kids faced eating disorders and loneliness. At the start of the new academic year in September, I packed my kids off to school. We had to shift to online learning a few times in the last six months, which is when things got out of hand again.”

Alveena Sarwar, mother of two kids aged six and one, said: “It has been a challenge since March last year. My son is six; kids of his age need supervision; you cannot open the laptop and expect them to attend classes on their own and complete homework by themselves.”

Increasing demands due to home learning has also forced some parents to opt out of traditional learning for their kids. “Last year, I weighed my options and decided to home-school both my kids aged five and six. For this academic year, we have been following Seton Home Study School. It has helped me save 90 per cent of tuition fees, relieved me of anxieties around following school schedule and my work. I teach them at my pace and they are enjoying it,” says Agnes Uminga, a senior IT official and mother of two.

Many children are also facing mental health issues due to the changed dynamics. Experts at Priory Wellbeing Centre, say there has been an increase in counselling enquiries for children and youth in the last 12 months. “Studies show there is a connection between loneliness and depression. With many children and young people having missed a significant amount of schooling their mental health will naturally have suffered as a result,” says Tanya Dharamshi, Clinical Director and Counselling Psychologist at Priory Wellbeing Centre.

Nadia Brooker, Counselling Psychologist at Priory Wellbeing Centre said: “We have seen a 20 per cent rise in eating disorder referrals during the pandemic. This could be a way to ‘cope’ with social isolation, changes to routines and anxiety symptoms among students and parents of children and adolescents.”

Things might not return to normal any time soon. And while we are at it, it is a given that parents will have to work and attend to caregiving at a personal cost in order to guide their children through this pandemic. A bit of certainty around school routines could help ease parenting, and yet we cannot be sure of this.

Some issues facing students due to interrupted school year

Loneliness

With many children and young people having missed a significant amount of schooling as a result of the pandemic — up to five months in worse cases – their mental health will naturally have suffered as a result.

Tips to handle it

> Coping with change: The most important thing is to reassure your teenager that change — no matter how big or small — is a normal part of life. They should be encouraged to see it almost like a ‘global challenge’.

> Nurture relationships: Being with their peers is key for a child’s development. Encourage them to take part in an activity they both enjoy together over a video call. Doing an activity together tends to lead to enjoyment and laughter, and helps to take their focus away from the pandemic crisis.

> Lead by example: Normalise and validate what they are feeling and share how this is impacting you as well. Look towards developing skills to help support each other. indulge in check-ins, daily hugs and rituals that you can develop to create a safe, secure space to to strengthen yourselves and each other.

> Limit exposure to social media: Create a structure which incorporates electronic time for school, time for communication with friends and time for exercise and outdoor activity.

> Get outdoors: Exercise, getting outdoors help release ‘feel good’ chemicals in our brain.

Tanya Dharamshi, Clinical Director, Priory Wellbeing Centre, Dubai

Separation Anxiety

For younger children ‘separation anxiety’ has been a concern. Many have become used to being constantly around their parents and may suffer from separation anxiety. Separation anxiety can affect most children at some stage or another.

Tips to handle it:

> Make sure they [children] get enough sleep; lack of good, quality sleep can further exacerbate feelings of anxiety and panic.

> Parents should talk to children about going back to work and emphasise how much they have missed being in their office and catching up with colleagues. This will help the child know their parents will be safe and happy when away from them.

> Develop a clear morning routine so that the child feels safe and can predict what will happen next.

> Develop a positive and cheerful way of saying ‘goodbye’ every morning with your child. This could include a simple ‘high five’ or a specially-themed goodbye that is fun and encourages laughter and smiles.

> Introduce old routines gradually.

Dr Rasha, Medical Director and Specialist Psychiatrist, Priory Wellbeing Centre, Dubai

Eating disorders

Over-eating or restricting food intake can be seen by those with eating disorders as a way to ‘cope’ with feeling of not being in control, social isolation and changes to people’s routine and home lives.

Tips to handle it:

> Have a clear meal plan: This includes three main meals (that incorporates carbohydrates, protein, vegetables, dairy and fats) and snacks. Ideally, we function best when we eat regularly throughout the day, which means eating every 3 hours or so.

> Become aware of your feelings: Take time out every day to reflect on how you are coping. So, simply STOP: Stop, take a step back, observe and proceed mindfully.

> Recognise and name what makes you vulnerable or triggers you to use food as a coping skill (these may be internal or external triggers).

> Use mindfulness and grounding techniques, such as deep-breathing and mental bodyscans (apps such as Calm or Headspace are great).

> Notice the positives: It can be helpful to end your day by noticing one thing you enjoyed, one thing you are grateful for, and one thing that you achieved.

> Don’t beat yourself up: If you feel like you engaged in any form of disordered eating, notice what caused this — use this information in a helpful way and plan how to move forward by naming helpful skilful alternatives.

Nadia Brooker, Counselling Psychologist, Priory Wellbeing Centre, Dubai

suneeti@khaleejtimes.com

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Suneeti Ahuja Kohli

Suneeti Ahuja-Kohli has been in Dubai long enough to call it her spiritual home. She loves to travel but plans to settle down in Koi Samui, Thailand eventually to spend her sunset years by the sea. For now, she writes frequently on personal finance, retirement planning, business news and features, health and almost anything assigned by her editor. Her sojourns can be followed on instagram (suneetiahujakohli), news and views on Twitter @suneetiahuja, and for the rest, there’s a Facebook account.





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